When I was born, I was a big deal. And when I die, there will be nothing left but memories. Because I am just a piece of history. A defining moment is a specific happening that can reshape ones life. Not unlike all pieces of history, I have my own defining moments, like when I first learned guitar, when I quit my band, and when I wrote a fantastic short story. All of these moments will be defined to you as they were defining to me, in the following paragraphs.
"I hope you have the time of your life." These words turned me into a musician. A man named Jeff Leary, had come into our grade seven classroom to teach us the famous Green Day song, "Good Riddance". When I started playing that guitar, I was a natural. After that, I began playing many more instruments. To this day I am a gifted musician.
"I can’t take this anymore, we suck and this is a waste of time, and gas money" I had quit my band after six months, because we hadn’t done anything. We knew one song together. Brandon had no voice, nor guitar skills, Jesse was always fooling around, and Liam didn’t want to play bass. After that I made new, more mature, and let’s face it, more popular friends.
"In That Field, Matt Ramsey would rest in peace forever." I was always a good writer, but I had got caught up in music. I wrote this story for English class called "In That Field." Everyone loved it, including my teacher. This was when I knew what I wanted to do, I didn’t want to be a musician, an architect, or a carpenter in Africa, I wanted to be a writer.
My musical beginnings, ex-band, and short story, are a few of my essential defining moments. Like I said before, a defining moment is a special point in ones life that enforces a dramatic change. These moments, however small, have shaped my life, and made a piece of history that has and will be called Scott Joseph Summerhayes.
It started with letters sent back and forth by a horseman, then it was letters sent by mail, then scrap pieces of paper, post-its, memos’, and now in the 21st century MSN. All of these things are methods of conversation, The average conversation would usually take place face to face, but if you like a girl, and you are too much of a pussy to speak to her face to face then you most likely would talk to the girl via MSN, which is a form of instant messaging. These simple rules will guide you threw all the things you need to know about how to attract a girl over MSN.
I’m expecting that if you have this person on your MSN then you have previously met them and obtained the address from that person. Though you may have their address that does not mean that you frequently engage in a conversation with one another. If not then you should start the conversation with a simple "Hey." If you receive a "Hey." back then you’re off to a good start, and if you receive a "Hey, what’s up?" back then you are off to a great start. If you receive nothing back then you should just give up on that girl and move onto another.
When you are asked "what’s up?" you should not under any circumstanced reply with "Niffin, Jus Chillin." You will look like a complete douche. After this you are on your own, you can either ask the girl a series of questions to keep the focus on her, or you can be a sissy Mary and stop the conversation there. Never ask the girl person who they are liking that is focussing on the fact that relationships are on your mind while you talk to her, and therefor making her aware that you are interested in having a relationship with her. If an awkward pause is to arise then let it pass, wait for her to have a chance and end the silence, and if she takes too long think of some question that to ask her. But remember, nothing about relationships. NEVER fill it in with a "So…….." This indicated that you are anxious to continue the conversation with her, which is very unattractive.
If you think that you are cool by using lots of acronyms such as WUU2 - What are you up too? And NTM - Not too much, you’re not. All it makes you look like is a complete fool. There are acceptable acronyms such as NVM - never mind, and G2G - Got to go. But for the sake of all of us please don’t get too complicated.
Keep unnecessary punctuations like periods (.) And commas (,) to a minimum. Question marks are acceptable and Exclamation marks are encouraged. But please don’t over do it, A maximum average of one exclamation mark for every five sentences. So choose those sentences wisely.If you follow this simple code of conduct then I can assure you that you will have a decent and maybe even flirtatious conversation with the girl, but don’t get your hopes up. Good luck, and remember NO RELATIONSHIP TALK.